Lolita Giveaways, Sales, and Pre-orders!!

Ok, so sadly this week's post is a little small.  I'm going to try Hard to keep up with the posts, just I have started overtime at work which means I get up early to go to work, work late and then I am home in time to eat dinner and go to bed.

I want to go on about a Lolita Giveaway I have seen online and to talk about the Brand a bit.

Belladonna

https://www.facebook.com/fashionsbybelladonna

Belladonna is a independent Brand, owned and designed By Michelle S. Ramon and Rachel M Decker.
They are based in Richmond Virginia and have become successfully popular, with over 1,000 likes on their Facebook page!  

Belladonna's Giveaway includes a free skirt with a matching Head Bow in either Amelia's Locket (there are three color choices to choose from), or their Twilight/Rainbow Twinkle Jelly.

If you are interested in purchasing Amelia's Locket, Belladonna currently has pre-ordering available for the Skirt, JSK, and the OP.  The pre-order ends on 8/4/13, so you better place your order quickly!  Each pre-order will also come with a Free Head Bow to match with the garment of choice.  Belladonna also provides custom sizing for an additional fee.  

Twilight/Rainbow Twinkle Jelly will be available for Pre-order this Fall!  Pre-order for Grace Valentines and Fanciful Siren Walts will start at Otakon.  If you plan on attending the convention on August 9th-11th, find them at the Artist Alley to Pre-order.  Pre-ordering online will commence after the convention.

Make sure to check out their Storenvy, and to follow them on Facebook, Twitter to find out more about their Preorders, Giveaways, and whats going to be coming soon!

Belladonna

twitter.com/BelladonnaRandM

fashionsbybelladonna.tumblr.com

The Snow Field

Another Brand worth mentioning is The Snow Field, who focus on the Classic Lolita Style and are based in Georgia.  The Snow Field will also be attending Otakon this year in the Artist Alley.  Their customer focus is on ladies from their mid twenties and older, providing clothing for the Lolita Life Style and even providing clothing you could feel comfortable to wear to work.  

They have both an Etsy store and a Storenvy.

http://www.etsy.com/shop/snowfield

http://thesnowfield.storenvy.com/

On their Storenvy, pre-order for their T-shirts are available.  You do only get the T-shirt, however a lot of time and detail go into them.  I personally am a fan of the Mermaid t-shirt (but that's no surprise).  They also have petticoats and bags for sale on their Storenvy, and skirts and accessories for sale on their Etsy.

I think I will be purchasing a petticoat myself.  Keep a look out for updates on their shop pages, because they do sell more.  In the past they have sold OP's, JSKs, and other garments in these beautiful prints, and everything looks so elegant.  To see some of their past items, check out their Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/bysnowfield

The Mini Watch

This Brand is is not advertised as Lolita accessories, but if you look at these I am sure you are going to find a watch for one of your favorite Coords.

Mini Watches are "Hand-made, hand-painted, original 3D watches Brand Mini."  Watches come with a one year international guarantee, and honestly that great, because if the watch doesn't work you don't get stuck with it.  However for the amount of work that probably went into these watches I think I would still keep it around if I bought one because they are so pretty!  You even get a certificate of authenticity with your purchase!  I love the secret garden Mini Watch.

http://www.theminiwatch.com/en/

I wish I had time to include more stuff.  Basically after this post, I am not working on the next one.  Please let me know if you are interested in certain topics, or if there is a certain brand or indi-brand that you really like!

So You Want to Plan a Meetup!

Lolita meetups can be so much fun!  Whether you are just planning a get together at a private, or public location.  It gives you a chance to meet new friends or just spend time with old ones.   Events can take place at a tea house, museum, amusement park (that one might not be too practical, but it's been done before), or even your own home.

There are steps that you have to take, and these are the same with ANY event, not just a Lolita Meet.  To make this more comprehensive, I am planning on creating an event soon and I will use my event as an example.

Step 1:  When and Where?

I have recently decided that I want to have a get-together at my house, in the Fall.  Specifically, a Sunday brunch in my backyard.  I choose my house since we have an out door bar, tables, and plenty of seating.  Aside from the back yard, we will also have access to the front yard for games, and the basement, should the weather not be ideal..  Since it is still summer time, I am providing enough time to get money together and plan my party.  If I can send out my invitations early, this will also give my guests to make arrangements to come if they need to request off work.

Step 2:  How many people do you plan on inviting, should you just invite the whole Lolita community or select people?

There is limited space at the event I am planning.  As much as I would love to invite the whole community there just would not be enough room  if every member of the community rsvped (imagine all the petties XD).  By limiting people this can also help give me an idea of what my budget will look like.  We will get into that more later.  For now I am looking to invite between 10-15 people.

If your event is public, like going to a museum or to the movies, inviting the whole community should be fine as long as there is not a limit to how many people can occupy that building or place (and that if every single person in your community goes you do not have to worry about exceeding a limit).  The most Lolita's I have seen at a event where everyone was invited, was around 20-25 people.  Each community varies in the amount of members, and not everyone can attend to the same meetup, be it because of work, money, or transportation.

For those of you wondering about invitations, I am simply just going to create a Facebook event.  If I had everyone's addresses I would send out regular invitations.  That may be something I look into doing in the future.

Step 3:  Food.  What are your options?  What are you serving?

If you have the time and money you can provide all the food, or you can make a potluck (example: photo above) and everyone can bring something.  By doing a potluck you do save a lot of money on food and you don't have to worry about spending all of your time in the kitchen.  For me personally, I plan on trying to provide all the food and drink so that it is more convenient for my guests, but if someone indicates that they want to bring something that is fine by me.

Since I plan on doing a brunch, I need to think of what food I want to serve.  When I make my event, I will ask people for suggestions on food, mostly because some people are vegetarians, and they may not be able to eat everything that I plan on providing.  There are also people who just wont eat certain things, whether they are vegetarians or not.

Freshly made Waffles
Toast
Muffins
Scones
Suggage and Bacon
Eggs
potatoes/hasbrowns
Cut Fruit
Condiments: Jam/Jelly, syrup, whip cream, powered sugar, butter, Ketchup... people like to put it on their hasbrowns.

Drinks: Various Tea, Orange Juice, Milk, Water, and Mimosa's for those 21 and older. If you plan on having alcohol at a Lolita event, and underage members of your community are going to be there, you need to ask to see ID.  If you are worried about hurting feelings or singling people out, you need to remember that if you give an underage person an alcoholic beverage then you can do jail time.  Not to mention if something happens to said person who takes that drink from you, you will be seen at fault and then be put under further penalties.

Now that I have my menu, I have to think about some important things.  How much food should I make?  What can easily be made the night before and still be good the next day?  Anything that requires baking will be made the night before, such as the muffins and scones.  I could cut the fruit the night before as well, or I can get up early enough to cut it before everyone gets to my house.

Step 4: Theme (if any), Decorations, Plates and silverware.

This is the part where I have the most fun!  So I am planning this Brunch in the Fall.  So any decorations I get will be specifically Fall themed (not Halloween, even though I do love Halloween parties!)  This is just the planning stage, so I may or may not get all of the items listed.

Fall flowers
pumpkins and gourds 
Birds and birdcages
Balloons
Ribbons
Fall themed plates, cups, and plastic silverware.
Table cloths

If you plan on having games, you can also make prizes for each winner.  The most expected game would probably be croquette, but you could get a ring toss or bean bag game as well, something that wont take too much room and is easy to set up and break down.  That being said, you can break out the Wii and play Wii bowling!  I'm not sure if I will have prizes or not.  This all depends on if there is time.

Step 5: The Budget.

Review steps 1-4 and decided what you can realistically do and what needs to be cut.  It's easy to get caught up in the idea of what you want your event to be, but the outcome can end up being more subtle than you expected.

The following are places that I plan on looking for decorations.  Some places do provide coupons, so if there is something that you want, but you need to save a couple of dollars, check online for coupons and promotions.

For Party Decorations:
Joanns
AC Moore
Michael's
Party City
Oriental Trading Company
Dollar Store

Food and Drink:
Local Grocery Store

Honestly I want to avoid getting something from the Dollar store, but sometimes they surprise you with what they have!  Its also a good place to go to spread your money should you be coming up short.  The majority of my money will probably be going towards food.

Well, that's my plan so far!  If I missed anything, or if you guys have any questions, please post them in the comments below!  Don't forget to subscribe.  Hopefully I will be having this party towards the end of September and I will do a follow up on that.

Lolita Taboo

Today’s Lolita Taboo is all about Cosplay With Lolita.

Recently I was asked if I wanted to appear on my friend’s YouTube channel, which I cannot give the information out yet because the episode is a secret.  I will update everyone once the video is up and include all of their information.  They want me to talk about Lolita.  On their channel they discuss comic books, anime, video games, cosplay, and the conventions they plan on attending.  I have cosplayed in the past but never made my own costume before.  For my friend’s channel I want to keep it relevant to their audience, so I decided I would go over the basics of Lolita, and talk about using Lolita for cosplay.

There are arguments about whether or not you can call a Lolita inspired cosplay, Lolita.  Some say yes because it is still called Lolita and has the poofy skirt, headdress, all the making of a regular Lolita coord.  Others say no because it is still a costume of a character, and when you look at the outfit, you just see the character in a Lolita Style.  More often than not, if you see a cosplay online that has a Lolita style to it, it probably has a #Lolita tag and a #Cosplay tag, but does that make it both?

For me personally, I would call costumes like these Lolita inspired, but its not something I would wear outside of a convention or costumed event, because in my mind it is a costume.  I always find other Lolita’s who really don’t like mixing the fashion with cosplay or trying to even remotely emulate a character through Lolita.  The reason being is that we as a fashion community already go through a lot when we try to explain to other’s that our fashion is just that; a fashion.  Once you add cosplay into the mix, the line between fashion and costume becomes blurred.

Cosplay Lolita is when someone takes a character from an anime, cartoon, TV show, Movie, Book, or any fandom and creates a Lolita outfit around them.  They keep as much detail as possible to the character’s original design however; the Wearer has decided to give the costume a Lolita look.

Here I found a picture where someone was cosplaying as the character on the left, and a girl decided to make a Lolita styled cosplay of the same character. The character is originally male, and so the cosplayer on the left decided to make a female version of this character.  It is perfectly acceptable to make a female version of a male character, however if you want your cosplay to be Lolita as well then there are guidelines that have to be followed.  Simply putting a little tag and calling it Lolita, doesn’t mean it actually is.  This cosplay is cute, however I don’t feel that it is Lolita.

Here is a good example of a Cosplay Lolita that is strongly leaning towards the character.  I feel that this particular Cosplayer used the correct components to call this Cosplay Lolita.  This girl is one of the Lolita’s in my community and online she goes by the name of Kinara-Hime.

Kinara has made a Lolita Harley Quinn.  Two of my favorite things in one!  You can imagine how excited I was to see this.  The skirt is bell shaped and it is at a flattering length, reaching the knees.  She opted for a plain white blouse that helped to balance the strong colors of the red and black.  I like that her hair bow matches her tights, and that she added the red bag and chose to wear red shoes.  I think that anyone looking at this would recognize it as Lolita, but you can also see the character.

Another Cosplay Lolita is when it only hints to being the character.  This can be done by using colors, accessories, and fabrics.  Such as this Doctor Who Cosplay.  The skirt and blouse makes for a good Classic Lolita look, however once you add the Fez and bowtie, its easy to recognize the character.  Other ways of doing a subtle Cosplay Lolita is by keeping your outfit to a theme, and this is something fun you can do in a group.  Example: dressing as the Disney Princesses, but everyone just wears a coord that is the same color as the princess they are dressed as, or wear prints that would match.

The best time to wear any Lolita Cosplay is at a convention where dressing up is encouraged.  You can also wear your Lolita Cosplay at an event such as a costume party, or if you are a part of a cosplaying community and someone is holding a meetup.  You could plan a photo shoot with friends to take pictures.  If you get some images out of the shoot that you like, you can display them online (and I might find them and put them on my blog, credit given to where it is deserved). Wearing a Cosplay Lolita at a regular Lolita meet up is frowned upon, and not appropriate at a un-costume themed event.

The most important thing about any Cosplay, is to have fun!  If you are planning a Cosplay Lolita, just remember that it should read as Lolita first and Cosplay second.  If you are not sure, just take a step back and ask yourself if the cosplay meets the anatomy of a Lolita coord?  Then ask yourself if the character you are trying to portray is still recognizable?  Have fun, and I hope this was informative and helpful.

If you would like to see more of Kinara-Hime's Cosplays, please visit her Facebook page.  If you have any Cosplay Lolita you would like to show, please comment with a link at the bottom!

https://www.facebook.com/KinaraHime?fref=ts

PS.  Thanks to my friend for all the assistance and editing :)

Innocent World Review

Happy July 4th/Independence Day to all the American Lolitas!  And for those of you who do not reside in the USA, I still wish you a happy day too :)

As I mentioned in my previous blog posts, I want to start making regular posts and making sure that they are relevant to Lolita.  I recently got my first brand items, its only two, but I am going to talk about these pieces anyway and about my overall experience from purchase to receiving and trying on the items.

Innocent World had a huge sale in June, and I decided to take advantage of that!  They had items that were 70% off.  I placed an order with a friend, and I got familiar with their order form.  IW’s order form makes it pretty easy to complete.  After I submitted the form, I was contacted by someone from IW, letting me know that they got my order, however one of the items were sold out and they gave me the opportunity to select something else that I wanted.  They were very polite and I was happy that they got back to me so promptly.

The wait was a little over a week.  Nothing was damaged and as soon as I got home I opened it!  Each item had its own plastic garment bag, with a hanger, and was neatly packed into 1 plastic Innocent World Shopping bag.  Inside a bag was a letter, thanking me for my purchase and that they hope to do business with me in the future.  

For myself I purchased a Hemming Checkered JSK in green, and my friend bought one in Grey.  The second item I got myself was the Tailored Salopette in Chocolate.  The dress fits pretty well on me, however the Salopette just barely fits, and that is mostly due to the length, as I am tall and have a long torso.  There are some things that I can do to possibly fix the garment, but I am honestly not sure if I want to tamper with this item.

The first thing I noticed about the JSK was the feel of the fabric.  It is not bulky or coarse as some of my off brand items, and the JSK is fully lined.  Once I put the dress on, I realized that the straps are changeable, and I could wear them normally, crisscrossed, or just tie the straps behind my neck.  The shirring also provided extra room if needed.  Overall I am very happy with this purchase, the only thing I might change would be to make the skirt an inch or two longer, but I was told I could wear a underskirt to help lengthen it.

The Salopette’s material is thicker, but still nice to the touch.  It reminded me of fabrics used for suits.  It took me a minute to find the zipper, which is placed in front and hidden behind the rectangle pieces (I am not sure what those are called).  This garment is also filly lined.  The back has lacing and a bustle back.  I originally wanted this in gray and black, but I am happy with this color.  The garment was a tight fit after I zipped it closed, both around my waist and vertically on my body.  I was able to adjust the straps that were attached on the back (they are removable), but this only eased the vertical strain a little bit.  If it was longer, I wouldn’t have any doubts keeping the garment.  It is very nice and well made, just not the right size for me.  Another thing that I like about this was the pockets!  I didn't realize that the pockets were actually functional until I had the garment on.  That was a cool surprise.

At this time I don’t have any Lolita blouses, socks, accessories, etc to go with these items.  I have some regular button down tops (as you can see in the picture).  I heard that if you have longer arms it is harder to find full length sleeve Lolita tops and blouses that will fit.  Do other tall Lolitas have this problem?  I imagine it would be fairly common.

Overall experience, I am very happy and I plan on buying from Innocent World again.  If you have any questions, or would like to add your previous experience with purchases from Innocent World, please leave your comments below!

http://innocent-w.jp/